Making a Good and Lasting Relationship

Relationships are an essential part of our existence in this complex, yet beautiful world. Read on to learn a few tips on how to build positive relationships that you can cherish for life.

Tip 1: One must listen to their partner and communicate all your feelings to one another but do not force your view point on to one another. Instead give reasons for the same.

Tip 2: Be tolerant and open minded. Avoid sarcasm, negativity and anything that can cause you a bad mood or them a bad mood.

Tip 3: Learn to give and take – to give or take is not the answer, only a combination of the two in equal measure builds lasting relationships.

Tip 4: Create fondness for yourself in their family. It is very important for both of you.

Tip 5: Give unconditionally. To expect always something in return is the same as paying for something.

Tip 6: Avoid being too emotional in your everyday life. You will have to convince your beloved that you are strong; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that they can rely on your emotional strength to be a help for them.

Tip 7: Kindness, understanding, trust and consideration are the keywords in relationships. If you are only trying to derive benefit from these relationships, forget about mutual understanding.

Tip 8: Be a friend first and then a lover. If you are the understanding friend of your beloved, they will be grateful and rewarding.

Tip 9: Give and demand respect to one another and do not let anyone treat you abusively.

Tip 10: If your relationships are established, you should carry on showing your beloved that you love and appreciate them.

Tip 11: Respect each others independence and keep in mind that your partner should never be treated as an object or possession.

Tip 12: Do not let other people push your buttons. Otherwise you will not be able to make any decision by yourself.

Tip 13: Learn to adjourn your recompense through patience, trust and understanding.

Tip 14: Agree to disagree and see each others point of view.

Tip 15: Give space to one another but do not ignore one another.

Tip 16: Live like there is no tomorrow and cherish every moment you spend with your partner. You both should be like one heart and one soul.

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